The Power of a Smile in Perimenopause
- Shakeeka Misher
- Sep 21
- 2 min read
The other day, I caught my reflection in the mirror. My hair was pulled back, the day had been long, and I felt every ounce of fatigue that comes with midlife. My first thought was, Wow… this is what perimenopause looks like on me today.
But then—I smiled.
Not because I felt joyful. Not because I had a reason. Simply because I needed a reminder that I was still here, still whole, still capable of joy.
And in that simple act, something shifted. My shoulders relaxed. My breathing slowed. My spirit lifted just a little.
Why Something So Small Matters
Perimenopause is about so much more than hot flashes and irregular cycles. It’s about navigating mood swings, sleepless nights, and days when your energy feels drained. It’s about feeling like your body is changing faster than you can keep up.
But here’s what I’ve learned, joy isn’t gone. It hasn’t left us. It just hides sometimes, waiting for us to find it in the small, intentional moments.
A smile is one of those moments. Research shows that smiling whether spontaneous or intentional—releases endorphins, reduces stress, and helps reset your mood. For women in perimenopause, where stress hormones and shifting estrogen already play tug-of-war with our emotions, something this simple can feel like a lifeline.
Well-Being Beyond Hormones
When we talk about thriving through perimenopause, it’s easy to focus on lab results, treatment plans, or supplements and those are important. But well-being is also built in the micro-choices we make daily.
💛 Smiling at yourself in the mirror.
💛 Taking a slow walk outside.
💛 Choosing rest when your body asks for it.
💛 Allowing laughter to live in your day.
These choices don’t erase the challenges, but they create moments of relief, grounding, and connection to yourself.
A Gentle Invitation
So here’s my invitation to you: today, go to the mirror and smile at yourself. Hold that smile for a few seconds. Watch how your body responds. Feel the shift.
That small act is proof that even in the middle of hormone chaos and life’s demands, you are still vibrant, still powerful, and still you.
Perimenopause isn’t about losing yourself, it’s about finding new ways to care for and honor the woman you are becoming.
Let’s Journey Together
At Thyrva Wellness, I help women move through perimenopause and beyond with education, advocacy, and personalized support. Because you deserve more than just surviving—you deserve to thrive.
If you’re ready to take the next step, I invite you to schedule your first visit here ➝




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